Blessing others.
I say it all the time. Be blessed, be a blessing. But what does that actually mean? Last time we talked about being blessed by God, today we will discuss blessing someone else. Let us pray.
Father, LORD God, thank you for all you have given us, from Life to Life everlasting, and all the stops in between. We come before you today with thanksgiving and praise, and we ask to receive eyes to see, ears to hear, and a spirit to understand your Word. We seek the knowledge of how to bless others. Please help us understand what that means. We ask this in Jesus' name, amen!
The Bible presents blessing others not just as a nice sentiment or a polite greeting, but as a dynamic act that involves speaking well of someone, seeking their tangible well-being, and acting as a conduit for God’s favor.
In the biblical tradition, a blessing is often a formal "declaration of good" over someone. It is the belief that words have the power to shape reality.
You can bless someone with a Priestly Blessing. “But wait, I’m not a Priest.” Well, actually,
“But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. “ 1 Peter 2:9
Yes, you are. So you could offer someone a Priestly Blessing such as this.
“The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD makes his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD lifts his countenance upon you and gives you peace.” Numbers 6:24-25
God instructs the priests on exactly how to speak over the people: "The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine upon you..." This shows that blessing is often an appeal for God’s presence and protection to rest on another person.
Are you blessing your children? In Genesis, we see patriarchs like Isaac and Jacob passing on blessings. This act was considered both prophetic and legal, as it determined the future success and identity of the recipient.
What about radical reciprocity (Blessing enemies)? One of the most distinct shifts in the New Testament is the command to bless those who do not "deserve" it. This moves blessing from a social courtesy to a spiritual discipline.
The Command of Jesus: In the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5:44), Jesus instructs followers to "Bless those who curse you."
“But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. To one who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also, and from one who takes away your cloak do not withhold your tunic either. Give to everyone who begs from you, and from one who takes away your goods, do not demand them back. And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them.
If you love those who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to get back the same amount. But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High, for he is kind to the ungrateful and the evil. Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.” Luke 6:27-36
This is also how we are called to overcome evil. Paul echoes this in Romans 12:14, saying,
“Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not.”
Here, blessing is described as a proactive way to "heap burning coals" of kindness on an enemy's head, potentially leading to their transformation.
“Therefore, if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. Be not overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” Romans 12:20-21
So other than saying a prayer, how else does the Bible talk about blessing others? The Bible frequently connects the word of blessing with the deed of provision. To bless someone is to take an active interest in their flourishing.
The "Blessed to be a Blessing" Principle: In Genesis 12:2, God tells Abraham, "I will bless you... and you will be a blessing." The implication is that any favor or resources a person receives are intended to be shared with the wider world.
Have you ever heard that an empty pitcher pours nothing?? You cannot serve others if you are empty yourself. You must fill up before you can give out. This is where reading the Word, praying, and going to church come in.
Sometimes, it will take more than words. In James 2:15–16, James warns against "blessing" people with words alone:
“What good is it, my brothers, if someone says he has faith but does not have work? Can that faith save him? If a brother or sister is poorly clothed and lacking in daily food, and one of you says to them, "Go in peace, be warmed and filled,’ without giving them the things needed for the body, what good is that”? James 2:14-16
In the biblical sense, to "bless" someone is to actively desire and work toward their wholeness, physically, socially, and spiritually, while acknowledging that true favor comes from God.
Now I encourage you to start slow and work from there. In other words, standing in line, and you see someone buying a coffee? Buy it. If you are at a restaurant and you see, oh, I don’t know, an elderly couple dining. By their dinner. I do this all the time, and you should see how it not only affects the couple, but the waitress or waiter as well. Sometimes, other people in the restaurant affect me. You would be surprised, this alone can open a door to share the Gospel.
Remember this.
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” Galatians 5:22-23
Always try to be nice, but NEVER fail to be kind. If you do not feel you can do this one-on-one, then at least Tithe. Why?
“Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, so that there may be food in my house. And thereby put me to the test, says the Lord of hosts, if I will not open the windows of heaven for you and pour down for you a blessing until there is no more need.” Malachi 3:10
Let the church do it. However, the food, clothing, and medical needs, the Church's and the Pastor's needs are not free. Bless the church so that it may bless the society. I encourage you to be a part of it, though. See how your kindness affects others.
And to the rich or the well-off? The Word says this.
“As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy. They are to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share, thus storing up treasure for themselves as a good foundation for the future, so that they may take hold of that which is truly life.” 1 Timothy 6:17-19
It is never about stuff. Remember, folks, especially those who have money, it is never about the money. Those who do not have money, it is not about the money. Remember, money truly means nothing. It is simply a tool. One that you cannot take with you.
“And he said, “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return. The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD.” Job 1:21
Jesus told us that the rich man who built bigger barns was a fool because he was going to die that very day. Then whose stuff will it be that the rich man leaves behind? So if you got it now, why not start blessing some now?
Remember, as a child of God, we should be trusting more in God than our jobs or even ourselves.
“And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19
Whenever you get the chance, big or small, bless someone. Buy lunch, coffee, or whatnot. When asked why? Say something like: “Because Jesus loves you.” Or “God has blessed me with eternal life, so I wanted to bless you.” Give God the credit, and watch how God could open a door for the Gospel.
I have said this many, many times. It is seldom about you. As a child of God, God can and often does use you to bless others. To share the Gospel with others. To care for others. Again, it does not have to be huge, like a new car or something. I mean, if you can, that would be so cool. But it could be as little as letting someone cut in line, or holding the door open for them. A coffee, a soda, whatever, just do it.
Remember, you can always find this, and so much more, in the archives, over at TAG
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May the Lord our God go before you as your way maker, as well as behind you as your rear guard, and may He be with you, always.
Until next time, be blessed, be a blessing, and Jesus is Lord!



