God does not want robots.
If there is an all-knowing, omnipotent God, then there is no free will. He knows who will serve Him and who will not. What is the point? There is, in and of itself, a problem for some. The concept of a Creator who holds ultimate power but chooses to restrain that power to allow for genuine love and free will is one of the most beautiful aspects of the Christian faith.
This is what we will discuss today. Let us pray. Heavenly Father, we come before you today in praise and thanksgiving. We thank you, Father, for allowing us to be adopted into your family rather than being forced to be slaves serving you. As we enter your Word, we pray for eyes to see, ears to hear, and the ability to receive and understand your Word and your love. In Jesus' name we ask and pray. Amen!
Here is the main thing. True love requires a choice. If God forced us to serve Him, we would be programmed, not partners. Love forced is not love at all; it’s coercion. From the very beginning, God placed a tree in the garden. The presence of the tree wasn't a trap; it was the presence of a choice. Without the ability to say "no," saying "yes" has no moral or relational value.
Then God gave man a choice. To be obedient, or not to.
“And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat: But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die.” Genesis 2:16-17
Now I want you to see two things. One, God gives man a choice. Obey or not. Live or die. Two, notice this also. Eve was not there yet. Do you see that? This is also man’s first opportunity to lead in a Godly direction.
Sounds a bit like this, does it not?
“See, I have set before you today life and good, death and evil. If you obey the commandments of the Lord your God that I command you today, by loving the Lord your God, by walking in his ways, and by keeping his commandments and his statutes and his rules, then you shall live and multiply, and the Lord your God will bless you in the land that you are entering to take possession of it. But if your heart turns away, and you will not hear, but are drawn away to worship other gods and serve them, I declare to you today that you shall surely perish. You shall not live long in the land that you are going over the Jordan to enter and possess.
I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live, loving the Lord your God, obeying his voice and holding fast to him, for he is your life and length of days, that you may dwell in the land that the Lord swore to your fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, to give them.” Deuteronomy 30:15-20
God desires a relationship, not mere obedience. Robots can obey; only free-willed beings can love. Do you want more examples? Here are a few more powerful passages that highlight God’s invitation versus coercion.
"Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me." Revelation 3:20
Jesus knocks; He doesn't kick the door down. He waits for an invitation.
"And if it is evil in your eyes to serve the LORD, choose this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your fathers served in the region beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.” Joshua 24:15
Joshua echoes God's heart here. The choice is laid out clearly, but the decision is left to the people. Also here. Remember when Jesus was heartbroken?
"O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to it! How often would I have gathered your children together as a hen gathers her brood under her wings, and you were not willing!" Matthew 23:37
This shows the heartbreak of God. He has the power to force them, but He respects their will, even when it grieves Him. Imagine a man who wants to marry a woman. Instead of asking her, he uses a chemical to brainwash her into saying yes. Is that a marriage? Does he actually have her love? No. God wants a bride, not a hostage.
We are going into this detail for a reason. Hang in there. Remember the prodigal Father. No, not the son, although if not for the son, we would not know about the Father. When the prodigal son wanted to leave, the father didn't lock him in his room. Deny his inheritance. No. He gave it to him. He let him go. He watched him walk away with a broken heart. Then, he waited patiently for the son to choose to come home on his own. Luke 15
Knowing this. Should it not change how you live? Not only on Sunday morning, but on Monday? Everyday? See, we can rest knowing that God genuinely wants us. We aren't draft picks who were forced into His army; we are chosen, and we chose Him back.
Now we talked about this aspect before. If God doesn’t force people, we shouldn't either. Our job is to invite, love, and reflect Christ. Not to manipulate or coerce others into faith. Sharing the Truth with others is our obligation; however, their acceptance is not our responsibility. No matter how much you may want someone you love to follow Christ and be saved, it is up to them to do it. To accept and live, or reject and die.
Now I know, I understand, some disagree with this. Often called "double predestination" or strict Calvinism, they argue that if God is completely sovereign, He must choose every individual outcome, leaving human free will as an illusion. However, this creates a massive theological crisis when it comes to the character of God.
If Sue goes to hell simply because God skipped over her, it makes salvation an arbitrary lottery and turns God's unconditional love into something highly conditional. If God chooses Sue and forces her to love Him without her consent, it completely redefines the biblical definition of love.
If Sue has absolutely no choice in the matter, how can she be held morally responsible for rejecting God? You cannot justly punish someone for failing to do something they were physically and spiritually incapable of doing. Right?
Scripture repeatedly commands humans to "repent," "believe," and "choose." If we have no choice, those commands are empty theater. God wouldn't command us to do something we are utterly incapable of doing just to mock our inability.
The argument for absolute predestination usually hinges on verses that say we are "chosen" or "elect." But a closer look at the context of those words often reveals a different meaning. In the ancient world, "choosing" was often corporate, not just individual. God chose the Nation of Israel to be His vehicle for blessing the world. He chose the Church, or the body of believers, to be His bride. Anyone who chooses to enter Christ becomes part of that "chosen" group. Think of it like a cruise ship: God chose the ship and its destination, but individuals still choose to step on board.
In the New Testament, when God "chooses" an individual, it is almost always for a specific task or ministry, not just a ticket to heaven. He chose Paul to carry the gospel to the Gentiles, but Paul still wrote about the necessity of running the race so that he himself wouldn't be disqualified, 1 Corinthians 9:27.
Whenever someone argues this with me, I always have to ask, then what does the word 'whoever' mean? Whoever, whosoever, all, everyone- what do these words mean? These are all part of the universal invitations of the Bible. The Greek word pas ("whosoever" or "everyone") is used intentionally to show that the door is open to all.
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whosoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." John 3:16
If salvation were restricted to a pre-selected few, it would say "that the elect believe in him."
“This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth." 1 Timothy 2:3-4
If God wants all people saved, but only some are, and He is the only one who has a say, then God's own will is being thwarted by Himself. That makes no sense. Remember,
"The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance." 2 Peter 3:9
God is all-powerful. He could force Sue to love Him. He could drag everyone into heaven or push them into hell like chess pieces. But supreme power doesn't mean supreme control. True sovereignty means God is so powerful that He can create a universe with free-willed creatures, allow them to genuinely choose or reject Him, and still ensure His ultimate plans are accomplished. He doesn't need to manipulate Sue to be God’s. He wants her heart, and hearts cannot be forced.
If God doesn't force anyone, then the ball is entirely in our court. That changes everything about how we view our relationship with Him. If salvation isn't a cosmic lottery, if God isn't pulling strings to force some in and lock others out, then that means something incredibly beautiful, but also incredibly urgent for every single one of us here today. It means God is looking at you right now, holding out His hands, and waiting for your reply.
Many people live their lives waiting for God to hit them over the head with a lightning bolt or force them into obedience. They say, "Well, if God wants me to stop this habit, He'll take away the desire," or "If God wants me to serve, He'll make it happen." Sorry, that is an excuse—a copout. God is a gentleman. He won't drag anyone into modern discipleship. If they want a deeper relationship with Him, they have to choose to wake up and pursue it actively.
When people believe God forces or coerces us, Christianity becomes a religion of checklist obligation, of doing things just so we don't get punished. Because God invites rather than forces, our service to Him shouldn't come from fear or guilt. It should come from gratitude. We serve Him not because we have to, but because we want to. It turns "I have to go to church/pray/give" into "I get to."
This is a massive point for how we live on Monday. If the Almighty Creator of the universe refuses to force people to align with Him, we have no right to force, manipulate, or badger people into alignment with us. This changes, or should change, how we parent, how we treat our spouses, and how we share our faith with neighbors. We stop using guilt, anger, or coercion to get our way. Instead, we learn the patient, long-suffering art of loving invitation. Just like God does.
God’s love is vulnerable. By giving us a choice, He gave us the power to break His heart. And yet, Jesus still chooses to stand at the door and knock. Today, the door doesn't need to be kicked down from the outside. It just needs to be opened from the inside. Are you getting up? Are you ready to open it? He is patient. However, there will come a time when it is too late.
This is what we will be discussing next time.
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Until next time, be blessed, be a blessing, and Jesus is Lord!


